I'm not talking about dancing in clubs or anything like that. Although I enjoy that too. Most people go to clubs because of the social-mingling factor. I know that is part of it - but that is probably 25% of my motivations :D. I will not go by myself mind you. I'd go with friends. But 75% of the time it's because I appreciate the art of dancing.
Walking with some pain on my thighs and hips this morning reminded me of the afternoon of dance lessons my friend and I took at this place called The Ballroom. They offer $1 dance lessons. Yes, it's only $1.00. It starts at 12 noon to 4pm for $1.00. This past Sunday they taught basic Samba, Waltz, East Coast Swing and Merengue. I enjoyed it remendously. There was one gentleman who seemed to be offended when I wasn't looking him in the eye. Hello? I don't have to stare straight into your eyes come on! I look right over their shoulder. I'm sorry, I lack any social skills and yes, I am shy so most get impression that I am not friendly. But anyway, this guy asked me , somewhat bitterly, "What are you looking over my shoulder for? Why aren't paying attention?" or something like that. It's basic Mergenue, the steps and hips are almost second nature. I'm not going to look you in the eye as we dance for 90 seconds hehehehe.
I learned something about myself as a very very begginer hobbyist ballroom dancer ( I took lessons before as well) - I am finally understanding the concept of "leader". I dance better if I have a strong dancer/leader because my response just comes out ...naturally. I don't resist it. And I should not think too much and not lead. I used to "lead" alot lol, which is probably what messes me up anyway.
I should sign up for lessons again. :D
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